To Thorongil's assertion about FA gods, I make a protest on behalf of the one I knew best: Diomedes, the God of War in FA. Knew the game very well, knew the combat skills quite well, and whenever he was on (which was quite often) his temple became a sort of combat school for people to try things. There was no pressure to patron him first; and, in fact, he was choosy about who he admitted to his order. (He had a healthy respect for RP and encouraged it, as did some of the other gods. He also respected players who really made an effort to learn their skills and find creative ways to use them. If you could show him something new or surprise him, he was delighted.) He was lots of fun, but not in a huggy or jokey way; and he taught players a great deal.
Frankly, he'd be a factor in my decision about returning to Avalon and whether to return to FA or Legends. But I don't know if he is currently active, or in which realm...