That was Ben aka Tristian (at the time my real life boyfriend until Hermione and him had their "unplanned" get together). He and Esprii worked closely in partnership for the mystics before he left Avalon.
Freaked me out when I first saw this a while back actually. When someone behaves in game to another girl the same way he behaves out of game to an actual girlfriend... *shakes head at her own stupidity*
He was actually very lucky that I only found the other Esprii conversations he had auto-logged on my pc after he had left.
As it was, for a week or so afterwards I was not sure which one he would choose given as for the last few months he seemed to prefer either to my company online or offline.
So - not one of my favourite moments, but perhaps a moment when I got a sinking feeling in my stomach and felt that my boyfriend just crossed a line I was not particularly comfortable with...