The extent of OOC when I was around was a really big deterant for me. Although it wasn't unbearably heavy, as most people just revereted to using tells primarily for OOC, it's a bit of an annoyance to be talking about something IC and then someone blurts about this show they were watching last night.
I personally tried to distance myself from people that were determined to make the realm their personal RL discussion group, and would always act confused when they mentioned something OOC related in says. A few people caught on quick enough and would lighten up, others...not so quickly.
I've been thinking about coming back for a while not, but am undecided on it. It's not nearly the fact of having to pay to play, that doesn't bother me all that much. But I'm concerned about the activity level, as I'm certainly not going to be inclined to pay to play if there's nothing going on and hardly anyone around.
I'm not very sure about recent events, last I was around, Narissa was still Guildmistress of the Thieves guild, and was just going dormant. Can't say I'm overly disappointed to hear Springdale isn't around anymore, just starting to wonder if they just renamed it.
I'd certainly welcome any news about Parrius and if Lord Proteus and Lord Clementius are still around, and about the activity of the Warrior's Guild. Such news would certainly bring me a step closer towards deciding if I'd like to return. Kresslack was my only character on Achaea, and I had one First Age some years ago, but haven't played in probably...five years or more maybe.
Take care.